A Nigerian man has cried out after his sister tied the knot without letting her family know about her wedding. The man identified as Raphael Udoye explained that he did not know about the wedding until invitation cards were printed.
The man revealed that he had only found out about the wedding after a course mate had called him that he didn’t invite her to his sister’s wedding. He recounted that he immediately called his sister to ask if she was getting married.
According to him, sister had been rude to him on phone, telling that her church Fishers of Men Charismatic Church had advised her not to tell the family. He said his sister told him to come to the church if he wanted to know more.
Raphael also revealed that his sister Blessing Udoye had been planning the wedding for six months before he found out
He explained that when his family members refused to support the union, the groom’s father came to his house and asked him to accept their union. Raphael said he refused, adding that the elders who knew what was right did nothing.
According to him, the father of the groom claimed that it is a tradition in their church that the bride’s family would know nothing about the wedding until the wedding day.
On his Facebook post, the furious man stated that in his opinion his sister was kidnapped and she did not marry the man.
“I FORBID YOU TO BE MY IN-LAW TILL ETERNITY
I Raphael Udoye From Umualabuike Isieke Isiokpo in Ideato North L.G.A Imo State Hereby Announce to the World That This Idiot In the Picture is never, and can never be my In-law.
I Raphael can never hide taboo no matter who did it, I don’t care if you are my Blood or not. Many people will say why did I went to work why my Blood sister is getting married.
It just started on 29th of June 2018, when a class mate of my so called sister “UDOYE BLESSING” chatted me that my sister is getting married and have printed a wedding card and I could not Invite her to the wedding.
In surprise I asked Her “which of my sister is getting married and I did not know, Is it a Joke or what?” She said she is with the wedding card that if I doubt her, I should Invite her to see the wedding Card. With my utmost surprise, I thought its a dream while its reality.
On reaching home I called her to come that I want to ask her if what am hearing and seeing is true or a nightmare? Surprisingly She replied “So U have not heard, If you want to know U have to come to our church to know more details”
Imagine someone that I thought is my sister have been deceived by Their so called Pastor From Fishers of men Charismatic church Isiokpo, that she should not tell any member of her family that she is getting married.
#A_taboo_in_Igbo_land I can’t withhold the insult from my sister and their so called Pastor.
I asked my sister again “Blessing who is the man that is seeking your hand in marriage that your family members will not know? is he a ghost or human being? Are you Crazy? How Could you marry someone that your sibling don’t Know? How old are You? Is Marriage your future to think for now? how can your pastor print and share wedding card without the consent of your family? Whose names is written in the Card?.
After all this Investigation I found out that the so called Abominable church “Fishers of Men Charistmatic Church Isiokpo, had plan the wedding since six months ago and hide it from the girls family.
On Sunday 1st July 2018 when I Started reporting that this wedding will never hold in my eye, that is when our so called stupid in-law receive information that the family did not agree that the wedding will hold.
On Monday 2nd of July 2018, I am preparing to go work when someone knocked, after receiving the guest. He introduced himself to be the father of this man in the picture with my sister, that he heard we reject the wedding and traditional marriage which will hold on 7th and 8th of July 2018, that he came only to appeal for us to accept his apology to hold the wedding, that it will be an insult to him if the wedding did not hold, that he had informed their churches all over Nigeria that his Son Is getting marriage, that He had shared the wedding card Since ending of May 2018.
I asked him a question “Is this not the first time am seeing you? How can an elder like you do such evil, by printing a wedding card without knowing your in-laws? How can you fix dates for wedding and traditional marriage only you and your church without seeing the parents of the Child.
He replied “that is the Order of their church, that the Family of the Girl will not know until the wedding date”
Tufiaa!!!! this is a taboo and I have never seen such in Isiokpo Land since My Birth. and can never accept a taboo. #no_Marriage_Introduction #No_Dowry_Paid
I Raphael hereby announce to the public that you did not marry my sister. You kidnapped her anything that happens to her in future I will Fight You With all Aspects.